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Go To Part I of Network Marketing Success Tips Part II of Network Marketing Success Tips5. Thoughts Feelings Actions Results - Beliefs/BeingThis concept expands upon controlling our self-talk More than any other personal development concept if you truly understand this you will live a happier more fulfilling life Our thoughts create our feelings Our feelings effect our actions Our actions effect our results Our results create our beliefs Our beliefs then create our thoughts and the cycle continues This concept is truly life changing because if you get this you will begin to monitor and change your thoughts which will effect everything else
Flush Out Those False Beliefs!Before you can transform negative thoughts and feelings, you need to become aware of them, so heres a list of beliefs that may need updating!Step 1 What drives most of my behavior is
. Step 2 6. The Power of AttitudeYour attitude determines how well your day is going Your attitude is choosing how well your life is working You choose your attitude Some people are in control of their lives while others are controlled by their lives Its more than wearing rose colored glasses Attitude is the perspective from which you view your life. Its how you view yourself and others and whats happening around you in any given moment. Your attitude is the role that you choose to play each day Your attitude influences every aspect of your life Beliefs Energy Stress Emotions Thoughts Your attitude will determine how you feel about and act upon the tools that you learn in this seminar Protect your positive attitude from the negative energies of others
Three Steps to Getting and Keeping a Positive AttitudeBe aware Check in with yourself and ask How is my attitude? Tell yourself Im going to make this a great day! This doesnt mean you ignore your problems, you just choose to deal with them in a more positive way Own your attitude Never let anyone determine your attitude You choose from moment to moment and in each situation who you want to be Strengthen your attitude The more you are aware of and own your attitude the more you will be in control and better able to choose your attitude in the moment Its like building a muscle, the more you use it the better7. Finding Your FocusA clear focus of what you want creates momentum and energy Its O.K. a lot of very bright people dont know what they want How clear is your picture? Blurry Some idea but too general Clear and focused The more time you spend on figuring out what you want the more clarity and focus you will have Knowing what you want makes it easy to set goals Without clarity you dont really have a target. There is no real sense of direction and no driving force behind your actions. In order to succeed you need to ask yourself some questions about what you want?Its All In The DetailsWhen you visualize its important to include as much detail as possible. Be sure to include as many of your senses as possible: Its not enough to just have an idea of what you want or to say that you know what you want. You need to take the time to visualize, in detail, what your perfect life will look like and then write it down. Its very important in order for your subconscious mind to absorb your vision that you write it down several times and read it daily. By writing it all down and reading it daily your subconscious will start to see it as fact and this will help to align you with your perfect life. The Law of Attraction will work in your favor if you see it and feel it with emotion.8. Setting Great GoalsNow that you know what you want its time to set up a plan. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail Did you know that less than 3% of people actually set goals in a structured manner? Without goals we live life by chance, instead of by choice Its important to set both long term and short term goals. Long term goals are your vision and short terms goals give you the path to actually get there.Seven Steps to Setting Successful GoalsWrite out the goal Start with, My goal is to. . . Set the date that you will begin and complete the goal. You will be reviewing the process regularly . Dont worry you can adjust the date if necessary Write out what the obstacles are to reaching your goal? (1 3 obstacles) This is a crucial part of achieving goals. You must look ahead to see what might stand in your way. Write out the action steps to overcome the obstacles. Do not skip this step. It is often overlooked and the reason that many people never reach their goals. Decide on a reward How will you reward yourself when you achieve your goals. Make it proportionate to the goal. Review your goal daily The more you review it the more real it will be. Each morning and evening is best. Reward Yourself for accomplishments along the way This will be your motivation along the way so dont skip it. It could be a pat on the back or an afternoon off or a nice dinner, a massageGoals are Dreams with Wings
9. Taking Control of Your TimeYour time is not as out of your control as you may think The most successful people all take control of their own time The four steps to controlling your time: Be aware of what you do with your time. Develop time awareness by asking yourself, each morning as you get ready for your day, How can I make the best use of my time today? Each night before going to sleep ask yourself, What did I do with my time today? Make time to plan your time Keep a daily, weekly and monthly schedule In less than 5 or 10 minutes a day you can plan your time and save many minutes or even hours Do what is important to you and actively avoid what is not Avoid time wasters whenever possible Take time for yourself and the things that you enjoy You can add an extra 20 40 hours to your month, every month Thats a half a work week Find time in your day that is wasted on things like watching TV, surfing the net, emails Skip the news at night and get up an hour earlier10. Taking ActionUnderstand why you dont take action when you know you should When you understand what is stopping you, you can find a solution There are 5 primary reasons that people dont take action You dont know what to do Who does knows what to do? How can you find out what to do? You think that its too difficult Is it really difficult or does it just take effort? Have other people done it? Then so can you! You havent committed to take action Understanding the motivation behind taking action is key Why do you want to take action? What will that give you? You never really wanted to do it in the first place Go through your to do list and remove or delegate anything that you dont really want to do. If its something that you HAVE to do but dont want to then keep it on the list but write down the benefits of getting it done. Recommit Stop wasting energy worrying about the things that you dont want to do. You fear doing things that are outside of our comfort zone Fear is a part of our human survival instinct When we fear doing something we find all kinds of other things to do first The only way to overcome the fear is to have courage and do it, then repeat it
This Is Not A Dress RehearsalYour entire future depends on what you dream and what you do next Make the choice to live your best life Use your mind, use your heart cherish the moments that make up your life
Choose Well
Enjoy the Journey
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